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Rishtey
Hum bachpan se sunte aarahe hain ke rishtey atoot bandhan hote hain.Rishtey kachche dhage nahin hote ke ek pal mein toot jaain .Rishtey to wo bandhan hote hain jo mout ke saath hi khatm ho sakte hain goya rishtey ki dori saans ki dori ke sang hi toot jati hai iss se pehle koi lakh todna chahe ye dori toot nahin sakti .Rishta koi kachcha ghada nahin ke ek mamooli zarb pe toot jai .Rishtey atoot ho te hain .Rishton ki mehek hamare saanson mein basi hai .Ye khushboo saans se kabhi juda nahin ho sakti .Humare buzurg kaha kerte the aapasi ranjishen ,aapasi ikhtelafat apni jagah mager rishtey kimazbooti apni jagah rishtey ki khoobsurti apni jagah.
Aapasi ikhtelafat lakh hon magar jab musibat ka waqt apnon par aan padta to sab ek jut ho jate un musibaton ke khilaf khade hone ke liye ,tamam ikhtelafat ko yeksar bhulae huye ,jab apne kisi qareebi aziz par dukhon ke baadal cha jaate aise mein apne aziz ki diljuee kerna sab se aham kaam ban jaata ,chahe uske saath lakh ranjish rahi ho mager musibat mein na ranjish nazar aati thee na dushmani ,aise gale mil jaate the jaise kabhi ikhtelafat rahi hi na hon.agar koi khushi ki taqreeb hoti aziz rishtedaron ke baghair har khushi adhuri mehsoos hoti thee ,khushi mein aziz rishtedar ki ghair mojudgi beinteha dukh deti thee .Aise halat hote to khandan ke buzurg donon fariqain mein sulha.karadete ke ab tak jo hua so hua magar ab ainda aisa nahin hoga jo kuch gusse mein ek dusre ko aolfoul kahe honge maaf kardo waghaira aor iss tarah dilon ki ranjish dho dalte the ,dilon mein kadurat hi nahin rehti thi ,dono fareeq iss tarah gale mil jaate ke koi gila baaqi nahin rehta .Ye rishte ki khoobi thi ke uski mahek saanson mein basi thi issko dil se juda karna namumkin tha ,rishte ka toot jana namumkin nazar aata tha.
Magar aaj ke computerized dour mein rishte ki khubsurti  kho sigayee hai.Rishta apni ahmiyat khota ja raha hai.Rishton ki nazakat ko log samajh nahin pa rahe hain .Apsi ikhtelafat ko log itni ahmiyat de rahe hain ke iss mein rishta apni ahmiyat kho chuka hai .Rishte ka paaswo lihaz karna log bhul rahe hain .Yaad hai to sirf ranjish ,dushmani ,dil ki kudurat dil se nikalti hi nahin "uss ne kabhi aisa kiya tha uss ne kabhi aisa kaha tha"Main kyun usey maaf karoon main kyun suleh mein pahel karoon,main kyun lkhtelafat bhul kar aalazarfi ka muzahira karoon ,nahin main kabhi nahin jhukoonga main apni haar nahin maanooga chahe zindagi haar jaoon"to kya rishta khatam ?haan khatam ,hum ek dusre ke liye margaye ,kya isstarah sirf keh dene se rishta khatam ho sakta hai ,kya ek dusre ke liye mar hi jaate hain ,agar nahin to phir itni duriyaan kyun?

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